Tuesday, May 26, 2009

From the other side

I just reread this post. I had forgotten how well it went. Didn't go so well after that day. He went twice, then got a high fever, then a sinus infection. He missed two weeks. Two weeks spent on my lap. So when he went back, he was not going for it. We talked about it all the way to school. He was fine! We got there, he said, " My school Mom? Miss Onnie?" Then we get up to the door, and it was another story. He started to freak out, grabbing my legs, wanting to be held. I kept rying to get him to get down, or even look at his class. He would have none of it.

This is the happiest easy going kid in the world, as you probably know. It was so out of his charactor to act like this. I hate to say it, but I sat there for an hour, trying to get him to change his mind. Which is essentially what needed to happen. He wasn't screaming, or making a scene. The only scene, was me being there. For the most part, the kids went about their day, ignoring us, except for one little girl. She came up to us, and rub his leg, because that's all she could reach, and said, "Wanna come play with us buddy?" She was so cute. This day, he didn't take her up on it.

The next time he went though, he started to do the same thing. This time, I wouldn't pick him up, so he just clung to my legs. Unfortunately, he is just the right height, so his face is in my cr*tch. OYE. Anyway, this same little girl, came up and said, "Come on Jack, come play with me!" He looked up at her, looked up at me, took her hand and went off to play. It was seriously the sweetest thing I have ever seen! It made me cry! Everytime I take him to class, she comes and gets him, and they walk off hand in hand.

When Parker was in preschool, same class, it was the year they introduced main streamed special ed. One day, when I picked him up, he was reading a book to a little girl who didn't have very much communication- but he didn't care. This made me cry. Then there was this story. Nick and Emma too, I'm happy to report, have always been so sweet to others different from them.

Now it is our turn, for someone to be sweet to our Jacky. This little girl, is the first friend that he knows her name. He talks about her incessently. It is so weird, and special, to be on the other side. And yes, I have thanked her mother. :)

8 comments:

Summer said...

That is cute. Ryland has this little girl (well she not little, she's very tall) but she is the first one to come and talk to him and try to help. She's always telling me what they did in class and what Ryland was doing. Very sweet little girl. One day Nick went to school and she knew he was Rylands daddy even thought she has never met Nick, I know Rylands going to miss his friends next year.

Amy said...

How sweet. It tears my heart when Kade struggles. Baseball isn't as forgiving this year. The top kids sense his difference-luckily he doesn't see it and the coaches are wonderful but still it hurts my heart. Hoorah for cute little girls!

Joy Howse said...

How sweet!!! Made me want to cry and I am not even there, I would be a puddle if I witnessed that first hand.

Jess said...

Oh that is sweet. FYI - we just had our little girl. she was born with the cleft palate as well as the lip.. But she is beautiful!

Bree said...

That should be written in Reader's Digest or something. Heart jerker!

Our Fondaco Family said...

You know I'm totally crying now, right? This is WHY I do what I do. I love you guys!!! Have a great summer!!

We in Minnesota said...

Sometimes we raise our kids right and they show the world how wonderful life can be and how great being nice is.

Sarah said...

That is so sweet!!!